Making a significant change in my life
I was with a girlfriend of mine for about two years and found myself in the biggest rut of my entire life. She was extremely demeaning and abusive. Everything I did was planned out for me in advance by someone else, and I felt I had lost all control over my life.
As a result, I began thinking quite negatively and attracted so much negativity into my life that I had nearly abandoned all hope. That was when I decided to break the chain, so to speak, and make a significant change in my life, one that would require a great deal of courage in the face of extreme adversity and uncertainty. The transition was extremely difficult, but I felt that I had no other alternative ... giving up certainly wasn't an option!
I began by visualizing the life I wanted, the person I wanted to be, and the person that I wanted to be with. I imagined what a happy life must be like and certainly saw many of my friends very much in love, successful, and happy, while I was down in the dumps.
Upon breaking up with my girlfriend, I was thrown into a whirlwind of change literally overnight. I quit my job, left my house, and started over completely from scratch. I never lost focus, always trying to remain positive even though I wasn't entirely sure what the outcome would be.
Very quickly, in fact, almost IMMEDIATELY, the changes began taking place. I began behaving differently. My overt happiness and relief of the incredible burden that I had CHOSEN to bear for so many years VOLUNTARILY was completely shrugged off. I felt freedom for the first time in many years, hopeful, and ambitious.
I met the love of my life, married her, and we now live in a 2500 square foot home where I have built a recording studio. I live, work, and love independently and have complete self-determination. I am autonomous!
I now have an incredible little baby girl on the way of my very own, who I hope to teach the power of the law of attraction to at a very early age.
In order to change the world around you, you must first BE the change you seek, ESPECIALLY when it is uncomfortable to do so. Then you are free to invite positivity into your life and choose to avoid and confront negativity head-on, confident that you are your own person, capable and deserving of love and all of the best that life has to offer.